
Reverse mortgages can be a helpful way for older adults to tap into their home’s equity without selling—but they can also create confusion for heirs. If a loved one passes away with a reverse mortgage on their property, what happens next?
This guide explains how reverse mortgages work in New York, what your options are as a beneficiary, and how to plan ahead to avoid complications.
What Is a Reverse Mortgage?
A reverse mortgage allows homeowners age 62 or older to borrow money against their home’s equity without making monthly payments. Instead of the borrower paying the lender, the lender pays the borrower—typically in a lump sum, monthly payments, or a line of credit.
The loan becomes due when the borrower:
- Passes away
- Moves out of the home permanently
- Sells the property
The most common type is a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM), which is federally insured.
When the Borrower Dies: What Happens First?
Upon the homeowner’s death, the reverse mortgage becomes due and payable. The loan must be repaid in full, typically within 6 to 12 months.
The lender will notify the estate or heirs and provide a deadline. During this time, the heirs must:
- Decide whether to keep, sell, or walk away from the property
- Coordinate with the lender to satisfy the debt
- Notify the lender if probate is required
If no action is taken, the lender may foreclose on the property.
Do Heirs Inherit the Home?
Not automatically. The home does not transfer to the heirs free and clear—it transfers with the debt attached.
Heirs have several options:
1. Pay Off the Reverse Mortgage
Heirs can keep the home by paying off the reverse mortgage balance. If they don’t have the funds, they may:
- Refinance with a traditional mortgage
- Use life insurance or savings
- Apply for extensions from the lender
Note: If the home is worth less than the loan balance, heirs only need to pay 95% of the home’s appraised value, thanks to federal HECM protections.
2. Sell the Home
Heirs can sell the property and use the proceeds to pay off the loan. Any remaining equity after the loan and selling costs goes to the estate.
If the home sells for less than the loan balance, the lender absorbs the loss—not the heirs—as long as it’s a federally insured HECM.
3. Decline the Inheritance
Heirs can walk away. If the property is underwater or not worth keeping, heirs can disclaim the inheritance or allow the lender to foreclose. They won’t be held personally responsible for the loan.
What If There’s a Co-Borrower or Surviving Spouse?
If a surviving spouse is a co-borrower, they can remain in the home and continue to defer the loan repayment.
If the spouse is not a co-borrower but qualifies as an “eligible non-borrowing spouse” under HECM rules, they may also stay in the home—but they must meet strict requirements.
This is why it’s critical to include both spouses in the reverse mortgage from the start if you want the surviving partner protected.
Planning Ahead: Estate Strategies for Reverse Mortgages
Reverse mortgages don’t have to leave your heirs in a bind. With proper planning, you can make sure they have clear options. Here’s how:
- Communicate clearly: Let your heirs know you’ve taken a reverse mortgage, how much is owed, and where to find the paperwork.
- Create liquidity: Consider life insurance or other liquid assets that can help heirs pay off the loan if they want to keep the home.
- Name a trusted executor: Choose someone who understands how to handle a reverse-mortgaged property.
- Update your estate plan: Work with an attorney to incorporate your reverse mortgage into your will or trust—and account for possible shortfalls in equity.
Can a Reverse Mortgage Be Placed in a Trust?
In some cases, a reverse mortgage can be used with a revocable living trust, but not all lenders allow this—and special care must be taken with the trust language. If you’re planning to get a reverse mortgage and want to preserve flexibility in your estate plan, talk to an attorney before you apply.
Speak to an Attorney
If you or a loved one have a reverse mortgage, it’s important to plan ahead. At the Law Offices of Juliet Cohen, P.C., we help New York families navigate estate planning for complex real estate—including properties with reverse mortgages. We’ll help ensure your heirs know what to expect and how to avoid surprises during an already difficult time.
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